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Ashleigh's
attorneys produced this video as part of the material they shared
with the insurance
company. They feel it helps remind the insurance company that
the victims they represent are real people with real families that love them.
We can't say enough good things about the firm of Dyer, Garofalo,
Mann, & Schultz. ( www.dgmslaw.com
) The attorneys not only took great care of Ashleigh's legal needs
but they have become good friends of the family and are willing to do
whatever they can to continue to support Ashleigh.
Ashleigh’s Story
Our family’s lives
changed forever on May 28th, 1999. It was a Friday and the last day
of finals for high school seniors. Our daughter Ashleigh was a
little worried about the only final she had left, English. You see
Ashleigh had developed a case of “senioritis” a little too early in
her final year and had let her grades slip. She needed to get a good
grade on her English exam to make sure she would pass and since
English was her only required course, graduate.
After the exam in
the morning she met up with her cousin, Celeste, also a senior
although at a different school. The two girls went back to check
with Ashleigh’s English teacher to see if she had indeed passed.
Even though my wife and I had been reassuring Ashleigh she would do
fine, she was pretty nervous. I can only imagine how good she felt
when she got the good news that she had passed. The girls decided to
go to local sandwich shop and celebrate.
I can only imagine
how Ashleigh felt for two reasons. One reason is that she has not
been able to speak since that fateful day over four years ago. Secondly, the
doctors said that due to the post-traumatic amnesia, she probably
does not remember that morning anyway.
You see, Ashleigh
never made it home from lunch. They were driving home on a country
road near our house when Celeste lost control of the car and they
dropped off the edge of the road. When she tried to recover a tire
blew and the rim dug into the asphalt sending the car end-over-end
off the other side of the road. Ashleigh suffered multiple skull
fractures and a very severe brain injury.
A simple question
you may ask is “How is Ashleigh doing now?” As you may be in the
unfortunate position of learning yourself, that is not an easy question. When
people ask how Ashleigh is doing I don’t know if they want the
polite version of, she is doing fine, or do they want to know a few
of the highlights since we last spoke, or do they want to know the
real, detailed version.
I will try to hit
the middle-ground here... When we step back and look at the big
picture, Ashleigh is doing great. Unfortunately, dealing with events
from day to day, we spend a lot of time in the trees and do not step
back from the forest often enough to appreciate the big picture. For
a girl who we were told had an hour or two to live just having
her with us is a blessing. She has surpassed the doctor’s
predictions on a number of fronts. Not only did she live, but she is
off of the ventilator and her g-tube. While she is still unable to
speak and only has limited movement, she seems very good cognitively
and knows everything that is going on around her. She communicates
with us via modified sign language.
As with most brain
injured patients her recovery has been marked with a "one step
forward and one step back" kind of progress. She has had some serious
setbacks caused by some very severe seizures. She is just now, a
year after her last seizure, approaching the level of strength and
endurance she had before the seizures. She has still not regained
all of the movements she had prior to the seizures. If she can avoid
any further setbacks we hope she can make some significant progress
in the next few months.
I will be
filling out this section with more detail over the next few weeks...
- Before the
accident
- The call
every parent dreads
- In the
hospital
- Recovering
at home
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to the video in other formats depending upon your video media
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